学会说不-Dont Hesitate to Say No

Don＇t Hesitate to Say "No"

　　1.别人请求帮助时，在什么情况下我们会说"不"

　　2.为什么有些人在该说"不"的时候不说"不"

　　3.该说"不"时不说"不"的坏处

　　Don＇t Hesitate to Say "No"

　　To help those who are in need is always regarded as a traditional Chinese moral. However people have to know well what the need is before the help is offered. When the need is just for some minority＇s benefit and against most people＇s interests, or when it is immoral or unlawful, people should not hesitate to say No. Otherwise they will put themselves into trouble.

　　Unfortunately, there are so many such examples around us that people end up their leadership in jail or bury their glory in shame simply because they don＇t say "No" while they should. Some people are reluctant to say "No" in front of all kinds of briberies as they want to swamp their power for money. They can＇t resist the temptations of accumulating wealth in a fast but illegal way. For their own good and their friend＇s favor, these people would sacrifice millions of RMB Yuan for an unproportional commission and therefore stake there future on scales of law. Other people don＇t say No because of misinterpreted friendship and lack of sense of law. They never hesitate to do whatever their friends ask them to do. They believe they are helping their friends even when they are actually violating the law or local regulations. Such people will also be punished according to the degree of their misbehavior.

　　Therefore, to help is not always doing good. People should learn to say a No when the help might hurt other people＇s interests.


毫不犹豫地说"不"

1. 别请人帮要求协助时,在什么情况下解况们会说"不"

2. 为什么有些人在该说"不"的字句时不说"不"

3. 该说"不"时不说"不"的坏处

毫不犹豫地说"不"

帮助那些需要一直被视为中国传统道德. 但人们必须知道什么是前提供帮助. 必要时只是一些少数民族的利益,对大多数人的利益,或者是违法或不道德的,我们不能讳言第否则将成为麻烦.

不幸的是,有很多这样的例子在我们周围,领导人民结束了自己的辉煌里埋葬或因不辱说"不",而应该. 有些人不愿意说"不"前,各种贿选要权钱交易的沼泽地. 不能抗拒的诱惑,而非法敛财的快速道路. 对自己好,朋友的青睐,他们将牺牲了数以百万计的人民币unproportional委托关系,因此,在未来的法律尺度. 不说别人不理解,因为缺乏友谊和法律意识. 他们毫不犹豫地做他们的朋友,请他们做. 他们认为他们的朋友,帮助他们即使是违法或地方性法规. 这些人也将受到程度的偏差.

因此,并不一定办好事,帮助. 应该说,没有人知道何时可以帮助其他损害人民群众的利益